Thursday, August 9, 2012

Spoiled child and How to Cope

Spoiled child and How to Cope

Every parent would expect a good child, obedient, brave, not whiny, cheerful, fun to play, and so forth. But certainly every parent hopes that her child has behavior that is fine. 

Where as if you have a spoiled child, super whiny, like whining, always ask for something in excess, we call it "spoiled" how siiih handle a child like that. In this article I will discuss the Spoiled Child, its features, na how to deal with a spoiled child spoiled.

Spoiled child of mind may be a burden for some parents. Sometimes even the parents will be confused by the behavior and the willingness of each child. There are some parents who sometimes obey all the wishes of children, but there are times when they will also be overwhelmed by their children. 

Does your child belong to a spoiled child? There are some signs that seen in children, especially when parents are too spoiled. Here are a few features like a spoiled child what it is and how to overcome a spoiled child.The characteristics of a spoiled child as follows: 

1. Children do not know the limits (eg force asking for something for the things he did not need, in violation  of various rules that have been established). 

2. Often whine, and cry easily. 

3. Behavior that is always dependent on others, and expect help from others to do the things that he should be able to do it yourself (for example, for help to wear shoes / take a bag at the age of 7 years). 

4. Easy to sulk when his will is not fulfilled, because it is not unusual with the process (usually the parent company to give what he asks). 

5. Bossy, difficult to budge. 

6. Power struggle (endurance) is low. Here are some principles to cope with a spoiled child care, so that the expected behavior will change, listened yaaah. 

1. Make clear rules for children. For example, there is time to sleep, eat, play, food that should / should not be eaten by children and other rules. Nevertheless, you still have flexibility, such as today's children and their parents are too tired, having just returned from a vacation out of town, this night all sleep more quickly. 

2. Children may choose, but make sure that the option is appropriate for him. For example, instead of giving the option to take a nap or not, because the child would have said no. However, the option to take a nap or a nap in my room and read a book. 

3. Too many restrictions will cause the child's confidence and not afraid to explore the environment. 

4. Rules should be consistent, do not give in to whining children. Parents should be firm to the rules that have been made. 

5. Consequences for rule violations should be given as soon as possible. 

6. Give credit for every child's success and if the child's parents to be patient for a ban. 

7. Let your child explore (especially toddler age), but make sure that the environment is safe for children (no sharp edge of a table, an electric switch is closed, and so on). 

8. Encourage children to do things their own age appropriate stages. For example, to open his own pants for children over 3 years, the school needs to prepare itself for children 7 years old. Give responsibility to the children according to age. 

So few reviews of a spoiled child, my great hope that readers will share their stories with me, the world's children, I would greatly appreciate any criticism and advice that you gave to me .... 

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BibliographyHawadi Akbar, Reni. Of 2001. Psikologi Perkembangan Anak: Mengenal Sifat, Bakat, dan Kemampuan Anak. Jakarta: PT. Grasindo

4 comments:

Muhammad Adam Hussein said...

kenapa harus berbahasa Inggeris, Mbak?

Tina Tuslina said...

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Tina Tuslina said...

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